A failure in love is a kind of luck rather than unfortune.
A failure in love,
means that we've been truly in love.If not,
there'll never be a failure.
We should know that in this world,
there're many people who have never been truly in love.
So compared with them,
we've won an point that makes others jealous.
Though we may lose it afterwards,
our life has been colourful owing to it-Our emotions become deep and our disposition becomes
mature.
Love is an finished choice while a failure in love means we're facing an approaching choice.
With time passing by,
if a person who can exchange his heart with you appears,
you can look back and say to the ages,
'Thank you.
I'm fortunate because of that failure.'
Don't be upset.
Maybe the one who'll bring you happiness, is right in the near future and waiting for you.
The failure in love proves that he's not the person that you'd devote your whole life to.
Try to find out this.
Things that we should not own will definitely never be obtained.
Sometimes you can't chase a dream, because it doesn't belong to you.
To the oppose, something that you're meant to have will definitely never escape and always be on
your side-
because it's yours.
Anyway, I believe you can make it!
2009年11月18日星期三
值得...
without you
I didn't know where to turn to
See somehow i can't forget you
After all that we've been through
Going ,Coming
Thought i heard a knock
Thinking that (I deserve it)
Now i have realised
that i really didn't knooOooOw
If you didn't notice
You mean everything
To love again (all i know is)
I'm be ok
Thought i couldn't live without you
It's going to hurt when it heals too
(It'll All get better in time)
Even though i really love you
I'm gonna smile
because i deserve too
It'll all get better in time
Without something that would
remind me
Was it all that easy?
To just put us out your feeling
If i'm dreamin
Don't want to let it
(hurt my feelings)
But that's the past (i believe it)
And i know that, time will heal it
Even though i really loved you
Going to smile
cos i deserve too
I didn't know where to turn to
See somehow i can't forget you
After all that we've been through
Going ,Coming
Thought i heard a knock
Thinking that (I deserve it)
Now i have realised
that i really didn't knooOooOw
If you didn't notice
You mean everything
To love again (all i know is)
I'm be ok
Thought i couldn't live without you
It's going to hurt when it heals too
(It'll All get better in time)
Even though i really love you
I'm gonna smile
because i deserve too
It'll all get better in time
Without something that would
remind me
Was it all that easy?
To just put us out your feeling
If i'm dreamin
Don't want to let it
(hurt my feelings)
But that's the past (i believe it)
And i know that, time will heal it
Even though i really loved you
Going to smile
cos i deserve too
没人值得你流泪...
No man or woman is worth your tears,and the one who is ,won't make you cry.
Never frown,even when you are sad,because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.
Don't waste your time on a man/woman,who isn't willing to waste their time on you.
Don't try to hard,the best things come when you least expect them to.
Don't cry because it is over,smile because it happened.
Never frown,even when you are sad,because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.
Don't waste your time on a man/woman,who isn't willing to waste their time on you.
Don't try to hard,the best things come when you least expect them to.
Don't cry because it is over,smile because it happened.
人的一生会遇上的四个人
人的一生会遇上的四个人
人生就是为了找寻爱的过程，每个人的人生都要找到四个人。
第一个是自己,
第二个是你最爱的人，
第三个是最爱你的人，
第四个是共度一生的人.
首先会遇到你最爱的人，然后体会到爱的感觉；
因为了解被爱的感觉，所以才能发现最爱你的人；
当你经历过爱人与被爱，学会了爱，才会知道什么是你需要的，
也才会找到最适合你，能够相处一辈子的人。
但很悲哀的，在现实生活中，这三个人通常不是同一个人；
你最爱的，往往没有选择你；
最爱你的，往往不是你最爱的；
而最长久的，偏偏不是你最爱也不是最爱你的，
只是在最适合的时间出现的那个人。
你，会是别人生命中的第几个人呢？
没有人是故意要变心的，他爱你的时候是真的爱你，
可是他不爱你的时候也是真的不爱你了，
他爱你的时候没有办法假装不爱你；
同样的，他不爱你的时候也没有办法假装爱你 。
当一个人不爱你要离开你，
你要问自己还爱不爱他，
如果你也不爱他了，千万别为了可怜的自尊而不肯离开；
如果你还爱他，你应该会希望他过得幸福快乐，
希望他跟真正爱的人在一起，绝不会阻止，
你要是阻止他得到真正的幸福，就表示你已经不爱他了，
而如果你不爱他，你又有什么资格指责他变心呢？
爱不是占有，
你喜欢月亮，不可能把月亮拿下来放在脸盆里，
但月亮的光芒仍可照进你的房间。
换句话说，你爱一个人，也可以用另一种方式拥有，
让爱人成为生命里的永恒回忆，
如果你真爱一个人，就要爱他原来的样子—爱他的好，也爱他的坏：
爱他的优点，也爱他的缺点，
绝不能因为爱他，就希望他变成自己所希望的样子，
万一变不成就不爱他了。
真正爱一个人是无法说出原因的，
你只知道无论何时何地、心情好坏，你都希望这个人陪著你；
真正的感情是两人能在最艰苦中相守，也就是没有丝毫要求。
毕竟，感情必须付出，而不是只想获得；
分开是一种必然的考验，
如果你们感情不够稳固，只好认输，
真爱是不会变成怨恨的。
人生就是为了找寻爱的过程，每个人的人生都要找到四个人。
第一个是自己,
第二个是你最爱的人，
第三个是最爱你的人，
第四个是共度一生的人.
首先会遇到你最爱的人，然后体会到爱的感觉；
因为了解被爱的感觉，所以才能发现最爱你的人；
当你经历过爱人与被爱，学会了爱，才会知道什么是你需要的，
也才会找到最适合你，能够相处一辈子的人。
但很悲哀的，在现实生活中，这三个人通常不是同一个人；
你最爱的，往往没有选择你；
最爱你的，往往不是你最爱的；
而最长久的，偏偏不是你最爱也不是最爱你的，
只是在最适合的时间出现的那个人。
你，会是别人生命中的第几个人呢？
没有人是故意要变心的，他爱你的时候是真的爱你，
可是他不爱你的时候也是真的不爱你了，
他爱你的时候没有办法假装不爱你；
同样的，他不爱你的时候也没有办法假装爱你 。
当一个人不爱你要离开你，
你要问自己还爱不爱他，
如果你也不爱他了，千万别为了可怜的自尊而不肯离开；
如果你还爱他，你应该会希望他过得幸福快乐，
希望他跟真正爱的人在一起，绝不会阻止，
你要是阻止他得到真正的幸福，就表示你已经不爱他了，
而如果你不爱他，你又有什么资格指责他变心呢？
爱不是占有，
你喜欢月亮，不可能把月亮拿下来放在脸盆里，
但月亮的光芒仍可照进你的房间。
换句话说，你爱一个人，也可以用另一种方式拥有，
让爱人成为生命里的永恒回忆，
如果你真爱一个人，就要爱他原来的样子—爱他的好，也爱他的坏：
爱他的优点，也爱他的缺点，
绝不能因为爱他，就希望他变成自己所希望的样子，
万一变不成就不爱他了。
真正爱一个人是无法说出原因的，
你只知道无论何时何地、心情好坏，你都希望这个人陪著你；
真正的感情是两人能在最艰苦中相守，也就是没有丝毫要求。
毕竟，感情必须付出，而不是只想获得；
分开是一种必然的考验，
如果你们感情不够稳固，只好认输，
真爱是不会变成怨恨的。
2009年11月15日星期日
让我们再相遇
the two of us together back then was great...
i thought this love was everlasting.....
but now ,
you're no longer next to me..
i am no longer by your side...
i see a tearful face that i' ve never seen until now...
as i held onto your hand...if i let go of this hand now...
i will never see you again...
i want to break up with you with a smile on your face ,
so i will just say '' i hope we meet again.''...
i was strong ,
kind,
and there was you but i wan never content ,
and just putting on a tought act..
even is the very end i couldn't be myself....
your words made me cry,
my words gave you strength..
but bow our words are just turning to memories and disappearing ,
and i can't apologize for hurting you...
but ''thank you''that's all i can say...
without any real destination, i reached that kindness of yours..
but you're not that strong yourself,
are you holding back the pain?
go ahead and cry,
because i will be crying too...
so good , forgive us, just for today..
i see a tearful face that i have never seen until now.....
i thought this love was everlasting.....
but now ,
you're no longer next to me..
i am no longer by your side...
i see a tearful face that i' ve never seen until now...
as i held onto your hand...if i let go of this hand now...
i will never see you again...
i want to break up with you with a smile on your face ,
so i will just say '' i hope we meet again.''...
i was strong ,
kind,
and there was you but i wan never content ,
and just putting on a tought act..
even is the very end i couldn't be myself....
your words made me cry,
my words gave you strength..
but bow our words are just turning to memories and disappearing ,
and i can't apologize for hurting you...
but ''thank you''that's all i can say...
without any real destination, i reached that kindness of yours..
but you're not that strong yourself,
are you holding back the pain?
go ahead and cry,
because i will be crying too...
so good , forgive us, just for today..
i see a tearful face that i have never seen until now.....
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